Posted in: enart.nnmj.com Date: March 14th, 2010
My soul mate was murdered two years ago. His family were. All dodgy and evil he used to tell me. I found ithard to believe, I thought they were a nice family.But after he was killed they showed their true colours. I am quiet and always help anyone if I can. But keep getting scammed mostly by family . I am too soft. My family have done allsorts to get money out of me,and know I am short of money myself. They are ruthless. My mother has stole off my kids even. I have done nothing to any of them. They stick together and make me look an idiot. It's 4 against one all the time. How can I've sure who I can trust, who is a genuine person. I don't have a clue who I can trust. I am alone since my loss. I know it sounds mean, but you need to focus on the positives... you have children who I am sure love you, and I am sure you love them back... Report Abuse
oh my god that is bad, i don't know who can you trust maybe no one but its bad about the family's your telling us in this world family's have to stick together and not steal or say a bad word against each other. i know they do.
if i was you i would not speak to the boy's family if there going to be like that and not yours for stealing of you and if they ask why tell them the reasons don't be soft to tell them and get on with your life with your children, if that means move away then move away at least you won't have to go though all that.
that's what i would do, don't know about you.
good luck girl xxI am so sorry for your loss. I know it's hard when you have one expectations of what family should be and it turns out they are not. I am living with the same reality. Here are some of my questions to give you an indication of what MY family is like. This is just the tip of the iceberg! Feel free to contact me!
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btw: Sometimes we just need to look outside our family to find someone we can trust. One of the reasons I have been having trouble with them is because I stopped allowing them to take advantage of me. This has cause a lot of friction and is probably why I am getting a lot of resistance from them. You need to move away from them and get some counseling to deal with all that has happened to you.Hi. You can email me at pinkgirl1122@hotmail.com
Take care!
Nina Report Abuse
Stop ALLOWING people to use you as a doormat. Ultimately, it is YOUR fault for allowing people to mistreat you because you do not set boundaries for yourself or your children. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and start RESPECTING yourself enough to put an end to this. Remember, there are no VICTIMS; only VOLUNTEERS.The next time that one of them steals from you, call
the police and press charges.
Avoid letting them steal by not letting them in.
Do not answer their calls.
Move if you can.
You can make friends after you move.
Best wishesYou need to cut ties with them... It's one thing them ripping you off, but you need to protect your kids, and make sure they grow up into good people.
Maybe if they see that you aren't interested in their schemes, they will change their ways to keep you around?
You aren't alone - you have your children, and you need to focus on them. Perhaps you need to find some good friends to stick by you?
Ultimately, you can't change the way your family behave, but you can stop it from affecting you and your children... they are the only family you need to stick by, and hopefully seeing them grow into good people will make it all worth it!#If you have any other info about this subject , Please add it free.# |
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